Why did I get married?
Why did I get married?
I just can't remember now. When someone talks about getting married, I surely cannot recommend it. No matter what, nothing is ever right; never good enough. Why did I do it? I just don't know. I certainly wouldn't do it again if I could go back.
For me, marriage has been a constant fight -- one for survival. Why? I guess because I am married to someone who EXPECTS to be handed everything on a platter without working. Someone who won't drive and expects to be driven everywhere. Who actually fights against everything I try to do to bring money into the house and succeed.
Maybe it's just that we have changed, I don't know. It didn't used to be this way, but for a long time now, it has been teeth gritting every day. There are occasions when the person I fell in love with surfaces, but they're rare. I'm not the latest thing anymore, the animals and I are pushed aside thing. Whatever... whatever!
So, for young people in love, guys especially, think it over. Don't jump in. Make sure they like what you like and aren't "hiding it" until later. I don't know. I just know that I, and most guys I know, are miserable. Some women too.
I'll stop now...
I just can't remember now. When someone talks about getting married, I surely cannot recommend it. No matter what, nothing is ever right; never good enough. Why did I do it? I just don't know. I certainly wouldn't do it again if I could go back.
For me, marriage has been a constant fight -- one for survival. Why? I guess because I am married to someone who EXPECTS to be handed everything on a platter without working. Someone who won't drive and expects to be driven everywhere. Who actually fights against everything I try to do to bring money into the house and succeed.
Maybe it's just that we have changed, I don't know. It didn't used to be this way, but for a long time now, it has been teeth gritting every day. There are occasions when the person I fell in love with surfaces, but they're rare. I'm not the latest thing anymore, the animals and I are pushed aside thing. Whatever... whatever!
So, for young people in love, guys especially, think it over. Don't jump in. Make sure they like what you like and aren't "hiding it" until later. I don't know. I just know that I, and most guys I know, are miserable. Some women too.
I'll stop now...
posted by Sturmkatze | 21:05
1 Comments:
Marsh....breathe....
marriage is not aways good nor is it always bad. Think, and I mean really think, what life would be without the person you married. And not how you think it was like. Unless you were forced to marry there was something good about the person you chose to marry and it's remember that, that will get you through the not so good times.
Hugs, Dean
Post a Comment
Links to this post:
Create a Link
<< Home